My Thoughts on Family Relations

There has never been a truer statement than the one I used as a title when it comes to raising children. The purpose of raising a child is to teach them the necessary skills so they can thrive in society in a way that allows survival and protection from physical, sexually, and emotional damage.  

You work so you can buy what you need. You buy what you need so you can live. You live with those that matter the most to you. Since they matter the most to you, you work the hardest so all in your family can have an enjoyable life together. We live in a world where things cost money and you must work to provide for yourself and others. By being self-reliant we become more connected to those we care about. 

Imagine a day without any form of communication. Texting, phone calls, connecting over social media, or in person conversations would not be allowed. How long could you go without taking out your phone to send a text or sparking a conversation with someone in the grocery store? In my opinion, it would be hard to completely ignore such interactions unless you were deathly ill, or you decided to sleep and watch TV all alone by yourself for a day. Conversations are like oxygen to the relationships we have in this life. Without them, the relationships we have would fall apart and no longer exist.

What do you think of when you hear the world crisis? Whatever you thought of I imagine that it does not sound or look enjoyable. In the Chinese language the world crisis is pronounced,  Wéi jī ( 危機 ). The Chinese definition of this word means two things. First it means something dangerous and secondly it refers to opportunity. Interesting how we look at this word in one way when really a crisis is both dangerous and an opportunity for change and growth. In today's world we often hear the messages like, "what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger" or "no pain equals no gain." Whether he enjoy or dislike pain and suffering it is a natural part of our earthly experience. Each person has their own struggles and issues. When I say struggles it may sound like the trial has to be negative, but that is not always the case. For example, having a child causes stress on the new parents, but it is also a time of immense joy. This week’s blog is not to discuss or create a list...

  Imagine it’s your wedding day and you are at the reception socializing with the line of people that want to congratulate and give you encouragement with your new life. Everyone in both of your families is there except for one of your aunts. Your aunt is very well off and enjoys going on trips all around the world. She told you that even though she would not be able to attend your wedding she will have her gift delivered to you. All you know about her gift is that she told you, that you both will love and enjoy it. Later during the party, some individuals carry in the largest and weirdest shaped wrapped present you have ever seen with a tag on it that says “fragile, open with care.” You know for certain that this is the gift your aunt promised, but your mind is filled with many questions. What is it? When the time comes how do you and your spouse address this present? How would you unwarp it?  Hello everyone!!! Hope you all enjoy this weeks blog! Sexual intimacy i...

 I heard recently that every marriage comes with two handicaps. My first reaction was, wait what, and then I listened, and it made more sense. Those two handicaps are the 2 imperfect individuals coming together. While we would like a perfect relationship, we must understand that we are all imperfect beings. A "perfect" marriage is one that stretches us and helps us grow each day of our life.